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How the hell should I use Linkedin?

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Besides ignoring unsolicited requests and messages from recruiters, I don't know how to use Linkedin. Don't get me wrong, I still have an active account and login every now and then to see what's new but, I don't really understand how to use this strange social network.

Each social network has its own purpose of existence. Facebook is to connect with family and friends, Instagram is to share pictures, Tiktok for short videos and so on. Linkedin lacks purpose. It positions itself to be like Facebook for your office life but fails miserably. 

People lie, boast, exaggerate and worst of all, share cringey posts. Now you can argue that it is true for other social media sites as well, but it feels awkward when a suit donning guy or a CEO of a company does that. It is a large echo chamber where everyone is patting everyone else. There is no counter arguments and no disapproval because everyone fears the outcome - "what if my colleagues or boss sees my comment?". There is in fact a subreddit dedicated for Linkedin cringe called "Linkedin Cringe". Linkedin as a platform does not have an identity of its own. I will go on to say that it is worse than Instagram as to the amount of lies and BS people share.

As a user, what should I share with others? I see people share their certifications which I won't. I obviously cannot share photos and, I cannot share a controversial comment because it might come bite me later. Should I blindly share my employer's post? or should I just use the DM to stay in touch with ex-colleagues?

The recruiters, often loathed are probably the most useful part of the network. Sure, you don't need to be pestered everyday but they can present some great opportunities. I think Linkedin needs to strip down its bloat and offer people a lite version with less noise and more focus.

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